Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Fear of people


People.......people....people.....Ever since we are born we are surrounded with people, people whom we know, people whom we trust, people whom we like, people whom we dislike and hate, people whom we respect, those people behind whose back we gossip but dont say a word face to face, people whom we admire, people on whom we depend on, people with whom we work.But as many people we know, believe it or not deep down inside among every one of us it brings fear.

Yes!!!! Its Out now that the fear of people is one of the biggest hidden fear of mankind. I am quoting below a few examples in this reference.
- A girl might fear of what would her best friend comment or say about her new dress.
- A student might fear about the scolding he/she might get from her parents if they are not able to get good scores in exams.
- A job candidate might fear of rejection by the people who would be throwing technical questions at him.
- A newly wed girl might fear of the people in her husband's family and meeting their expectations.
- A school kid might fear of getting bullied by his seniors...or fear of getting ragged in college.
- The fear of taking any decision being approved by your loved ones or not.
- The fear of wanting to become what you want in life over what people would think of me.
- The fear of employee knowing that even if he gives his 100% he won't be appreciated by his Boss/manager.
- The fear of what people would think if a person has any physical disability.
- The fear of what people will say if anyone has any inferiority complex.
- The fear of pleasing every person  you know and not hurting their emotions by your actions.

This was just a tip of the iceberg. By now you would definitely agree with me, no matter however bold or dominating you are, no matter how much strong you claim yourself to be; your life has been also effected by fears factor of people in your life.The fear of people might have resulted in taking wrong actions,decisions and as a result of which it brings regrets and sorrow later.

Now the biggest question is - "HOW TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF PEOPLE" and how to handle it?
I am writing this as breakfast is being served in front of me ( ;-) ), so can't wait to get my stomach full. Just keep watching this space. If I get people's comment wanting me to suggest or write about How to overcome fear of people I will definitely write it in my next article.Now by saying this I am also gripped with  fear of people- What if people or YOU don't read this, what if people don't comment on my post, what if they don't comment in the comment section? - I won't get enough motivation to write the next one-How to overcome the fear of people ;(  So if you think you want to get the perfect solution how to handle fear of people just write it in the comments section and I will surely share tips that you haven't heard for sure to overcome this fear.
 



  

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