Monday, March 5, 2012

Importance of Communication in relationships

Suppose you got a call from an unknown number, you kept on saying -"Hello","Hello"....but the response from the caller side is bleak or not at all. Another case in which neither the caller starts the conversation nor the person on the other side; each expecting the other one to start the conversation.Wondering what the hell am I writing or directing towards by these two different cases. Well I just want to emphasize the importance of communication between two people or parties, specifically in a relationship. It can be the relationship of a father-son, boyfriend-girlfriend,husband -wife, etc.If there is communication gap, we can be sure of the relationship going for a toss sooner or later as a result creating misunderstandings,confusion and frustrations between the two people involved.

Imagine what would have happened if Congress had not initiated communication with Anna Hazare and team when whole India was out for their support against corruption.It would have caused tensions, agitation, and might have also caused violence.There also communication played a major part.

If you are unsure of something its better to talk it out or communicate, it can be anything from a petty issue like how your friend thinks of your dress to an issue involving two nations -bilateral relations over Kashmir issue - I remember our prime minister Mr.Atal Bihari Vajpayee and Pakistan's General Musharraf meeting in Agra to solve the issues over Kashmir few years back. Communication is the key even if not reaching on a solution, we can be sure of knowing at least the mindset and views of other people about ourselves and vice-versa.

So if you had a fight with a person who hold an important place in your place talk it out, communicate, discuss so that you can be relived of unnecessary thoughts going through your mind.Relationship can also be back on track. Its my experience and most people would agree that is does wonders. DO IT NOW! ;)


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